If you have implemented the first three keys to building confidence, you should be moving along the way to living more fully in the present and not allowing past mistakes and the negative messages of others to undermine your confidence. Now it is time to change your thinking from a focus on failure to a focus on success.

Don’t allow yourself to be or become one of the millions of people who always see the negatives. Everyone has flaws, the world is not perfect and everyone makes mistakes and experiences failures. Instead, look for the best in others, align yourself with the positive things happening in the world around you, and look for what you and others do successfully. Become a success-oriented person.

Try the next three steps:

4. Make a list of your successes. Get others to help you make the list. It will be fun and uplifting for you. Those who help you with the list will feel better about themselves, too.

5. Practice looking for the positive and the success in every person and every action or activity. You will still recognize failure and flaws, but you will also learn to look for the positives even there.

6. Reward yourself every time you succeed. It is fine to match the reward to the success and celebrate bigger successes in bigger ways.

Share your list of successes here.

“Your success and happiness lie in you. . . . Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.”
– Helen Keller

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