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Creating Opportunities for Serenity

tranquil-womanSilence, calmness, tranquility, peace – they’re all synonymous to serenity. It’s the absence of sensory distractions, allowing calmness to rule over. And surely you have a minute to spare for it in a day.

That’s not difficult to achieve in your waking hours. There are opportunities for it at home, even in a quiet room in your workplace.

The best way to achieve serenity is through meditation but you can have your own one-minute version of it. The meditative discipline has several techniques practiced and ‘perfected’ by gurus but if these feel like an added ‘workload’ for you, just find your own quiet breathing space. You don’t have to trade one regimen with another.

Sit comfortably, don’t say a word, don’t think, don’t move. Let your mind open up an awareness of beauty evolved from memory.

It could be a beautiful campsite you went to as a child, a quiet tropical island you’ve spent a few days on, a blissful moment you’ve spent on a hilltop or a mountain peak, a light drizzle or a thin fog veiling the greenery, sunrise or sunset like a warm hand touching your face.

Meditation is known to relieve stress, anxiety, pain, depression, and even help alleviate heart ailments. Your one-minute meditation can’t hope to achieve these benefits in an instant. But stress relief and putting a little sanity into your blurry routine are enough reason to make it a habit.

Some workplaces have prayer or meditation rooms, even gardens. They are perfect places for your one-minute habit. If your workplace doesn’t have one, management won’t take against you if you suggest they put up one. A company becomes more productive if it gives its employees a time and a place to catch their breath.

Your one-minute meditation should also help simplify and organize your thoughts. It refreshes your mind so you can see clearly that happiness can be had by doing everything in moderation, not by indulging your desires and having the best of everything.

A deeper understanding of the essence of everything opens up the gate for the organization of the person’s thoughts. It is important to keep things organized to avoid too much physical activities that could restrain the improvement of one’s mental, physical and spiritual health.

Lastly, your one-minute habit should help you realize your imperfection, and you’re all the wiser for it. That you are vulnerable to mistakes should not make you feel inferior; it should be an impetus for you to do better at things you’re more likely to excel in and to be careful where you’re likely to not do well.

It’s a matter of affirmative thinking. The one-minute meditation is a step towards the positive light, like the luminescence of early morning light punctuated by the flutter of a dove’s wings.

A Note From Doctor Cynthia

Hope you have been enjoying these one minute retreats.

If you feeling stressed out, overwhelmed and out of steam running through life at breakneck speed, unable to even take a breath? Consider my upcoming three day retreat to rediscover, rejuvenate, recharge Your Life

This retreat is the perfect opportunity to remove yourself from the stresses of life, to renew energy and gain clarity about the things you really want.
During the course of this one day retreat, you will learn how to:

  • Relax
  • Put yourself first
  • Do what matters most to you
  • Make self-care your top priority
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    Take a Stroll

    Take a Stroll

    Take a Stroll

    Boredom is a state of mind that sets in when you’ve forgotten simple pleasures or when you allow a sense of emptiness to dwell in your heart. It’s not something you can just ignore, considering how it can affect a person’s work, relationships and perception of life in general.

    It seems ironic but you can learn a simple ‘cure’ to it by observing a child, who looks at ordinary things in amazement, laughs at funny gestures and enjoys ordinary treats. Perhaps it’s time to rediscover the child in you.

    We often disregard the little things that can paint smiles on our faces and leave remarkable impressions in our lives: the flowers in bloom along your way, the hot, good-smelling cup of coffee on your table, the affectionate smiles of loved ones. These are life’s simple treats, but they add up to a bigger, happier picture.

    The earth is blessed with riches. You don’t need to locate the remotest goldmines or buy a mansion on a hill amid a breathtaking landscape to know how to appreciate your stay. Simply take a stroll and be mindful of the beautiful things you see around you. And when you do, in a minute or two, you’ll feel you’ve come back to life.

    There are plenty of wonderful things beyond your walls. Take a stroll through those long lanes flanked by colorful flowerbeds. At the park you can observe children playing, families enjoying their time together, young and old couples taking time with each other.

    Observe the grass, the sky, sunlight on the pavement, sunlight on someone’s lovely face, the breeze blowing strands of hair away from a girl’s forehead, someone whistling a tune, the flight of pigeons, leaves of trees filtering the sun’s rays, the smell of bread from a bakery, glass windows and waterways glistening in the noonday sun.

    Let your feet take you to scenic locations in your area or just in ordinary places. But this time, observe everything in childlike wonder. With your senses you’ll fill the emptiness in you. You’ll feel a lot better, readier for life.

    A Note From Doctor Cynthia

    Hope you have been enjoying these one minute retreats. Please consider taking a 15-30 minute self-guided Gratitude Retreat. The Retreat to Go Moments of Gratitude is filled with everything you’ll need to successfully complete your self-guided retreats. It includes:

    - Gratitude Journal. Consisting of lined, dated pages where you list five things you are grateful for each day plus a collection of
    - Inspirational quotes to inspire you throughout the year along with “Powerful Intentional” gratitude practices
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    Find Serenity in Nature

    Finding Serenity

    Finding Serenity

    City Life can be tormenting in so many ways. It could be the loud music from your the next-door neighbor or the general din of the busy streets. It could be the motorists that cut you in traffic or people who shove you in the subway station at rush hour.

    The blurry pace of urban life and work-related anxiety can strain relationships, affecting your marriage, family life, circle of friends. Stress seems magnified in your jungle of glass, steel and concrete, and there’s hardly any time for letting your soul breathe.

    We want to live our lives differently, reside in the suburbs perhaps, with white picket fences, oak trees and all, but we seem too engaged in the trappings of city life and, there are financial realities to consider. But as Pandora’s opened box introduced the worse things in life, what remained inside it is the ‘unique and undying hope.’

    We all hope for serenity but it’s not something we get over the counter or at a hotel lobby or on the rooftop of a skyscraper. Yoga and other meditation techniques can only do so much, and not a lot of people want to find serenity with eyes closed and limbs stretched, mumbling a mantra.

    Nature remains the best source of serenity. The sight, smell and sound of the natural environment can revitalize both body and soul and make you see things clearly. That was perhaps why Jesus prayed in the garden of Gethsemane or why Thoreau sought wisdom in Walden Pond.

    You can plan a trip outdoors. It doesn’t have to be far. The calming sight of Tahiti’s turquoise water and white-sand beaches won’t be as serene as you want it to be if you find yourself hobnobbing with other tourists. You can go to the nearest place in your state or province that has a magnificent natural view.

    Nature offers a lot of breathtaking sights: a waterfall deep in the forest, a quiet creek, a misty mountain, rock formations in the desert, waves on a rocky shore, a veil of fine rain falling on grassland, autumn leaves in a lonely grove, a snowcapped peak, a frozen lake, an eagle flying in a clear sky.

    It can even be nearer. All cities have parks – pockets of nature in an unnatural jungle – and some of them are not filled with too many people. They can be worth discovering. A bench in a quiet spot deep in the park can be a good place to hear the birds or see some squirrels or just feel the sunlight and the breeze on your face. Your one minute matters if you make it a daily habit.

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